Friday, March 4, 2011

31 Day Prompt - Day 4

Wow, I'm already here again....

AN EXPERIENCE THAT MADE YOU WHO YOU ARE TODAY


This is a tougher one.  I'll start by saying that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.  And that out of every bad comes something good.  That's certainly the case in my life.  I spent many years of my childhood, living with abuse.  I won't go into any more detail than that, but I will say that it shaped my life.

For many years, I did not trust and even today, earning my trust is not something that happens overnight.  It made me a glass half-empty kind of person. I sometime regret not being more of a positive person, but this is who I am and I've accepted it.  But it has helped me face challenges head-on.  I don't hide from difficult times - I learn to overcome them and move on.

My other experience was my time in the Army.  I learned more self-confidence during that time than in any other.  I was challenged to be "all I can be" and more even now, 20 years later, that fills me with pride.  I served my country - my adopted country and I also continued a long standing family tradition of military service, even though I was the first female.

2 comments:

  1. >> I spent many years of my childhood, living with abuse.<<

    Ditto and I refused to let that define me. I am a survivor and stronger for it!

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